Women pass through different stages of life when certain patterns are braded into their mind saying they have to fit them.
The way a woman looks is conditioned by how much stress she has to handle, how much stuff she has to deal with and especially to how “toxic” is the environment she lives in.
Women tend to focus on all the wrong things and there a few factors that are completely overwhelming them. The society teaches women to stress about their weight and looks. Most of them live in an extremely” polluted “environment, filled with a completely wrong notion of feminine ideal which, by the way, is changing every two decades.
Women are surrounded every day by there better looking friends able to fit clothing with two size smaller than theirs, they live in a culture that encourages self torture and they stress.
There are so many ways in which a woman can lose her self esteem and most of them have nothing to do with character. The battle women fight is fought to the maximum and the only enemy out there is their own perception of the world.
A man would say: “All women are beautiful” and he would be right. What is beautiful in the eyes of a man has nothing to do with a woman’s weight but rather with a woman self consciousness.
In spite of every Photoshop-ed cover of the magazine that drives women nuts and makes them look for diets and fitness programs and especially in spite of the crazy idea that you would look you best only if you fit a certain size, the feminine beauty is extremely visible in those women who take the time to like themselves.
If you would spend an equal amount of time to nourish your self esteem as you do to apply toner and moisturizer in the morning or evening you would realize that you don’t have to be unhappy while you diet or feel tired after a workout session.
It’s up to you to be beautiful.